Three things in lifethat destroy a person
Greed, Pride & Anger
Three things in life are never sure
Dreams, Success & Fortune
Three things in life that make you a great person
Hardwork, Sincereity & Success
Three things in life are most valuable
Love, Self-confidence & Friends
Three things in lifemust not be lost
Peace, Hope & Honesty
Three things in lifeonce gone never come back
Words, Opportunity & Time
sambil duduk bersembang dan minum…dengan sebatang pen dan kertas tisu, terlakar sebuah graph..man vs woman…hasil kajian atas diri sendiri..setelah di analisa..benar lah…apabila dicantum…graph itu akan menjadi sebuah segiempat yang sempurna…
seimbang cas +VE dan -Ve nya…erm….satu penemuan yang realistik….wanita & lelaki ini bagai langit dan bumi…..teringat pada ungkapan 9 akal 1 nafsu vs 1 akal 9 nafsu 
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Istilah Akal merujuk kepada sesuatu permulaan yang menjadi tempat asas seseorang untuk berfikir, merenung, mengkaji dan memfilter sesuatu maklumat. Sementara nafsu pula ialah keinginan seseorang terhadap sesuatu, lebih kepada perasaan.
Kaum wanita memang dibekalkan dengan sembilan nafsu dan akal berbanding dengan lelaki hanya satu nafsu dan sembilan akal. Nafsu yang dimaksudkan nafsu yang menyebabkan seseorang itu mudah tidak sabar, mudah prasangka, pemarah, pemboros dalam berbelanja, cepat tersinggung dan sebagainya.
Hasil dorongan nafsu itulah lahirnya pelbagai perasaan pada diri seseorang wanita. Sebab itu dikatakan juga bahawa 9/10 daripada diri wanita itu ialah nafsu atau perasaan dan 1/10 saja pertimbangan akal. Sebagai contoh wanita amat suka kepada perhiasan, kepada pakaian yang cantik, lelaki yang menarik paras rupa. Perempuan sangta mudah dikuasai perasaan sehingga mudah tersinggung, berkecil hati walaupun hanya kerana seekor katak...
Allah bekalkan kepada kaum lelaki kekuatan akal yang rasional, tidak terlalu emosional atau mudah didorong oleh perasaan. Lelaki tidak mudah tersinggung berbanding dengan wanita. Lelaki memilih kesederhaan dalam hidup. Hanya lelaki yang bertuhankan nafsu yang menjadi sebaliknya. Jika kekuatan akal ini dapat dimanfaatkan dengan sebaik-baiknya, ditambah dengan kesabaran serta kekuatan jasmani untuk mencari nafkah keluarga, suami akan menjadi pelindung dan pendidik yg berwibawa.
People who do things I don’t like are not necessarily bad people. They should not necessarily be punished just because I don’t like what they do or did. There is no reason why other people should be the way I want them to be, and there is no reason why I should be the way somebody else wants me to be. People will be whatever they want to be, and I will be whatever I want to be. I cannot control other people or change them.
They are who they are; we all deserve basic respect.
I will survive if things are different than what I want them to be. I can accept things the way they are, accept people the way they are, and accept myself the way I am. There is no reason to get upset if I can’t change things to fit my idea of how they ought to be.
There is no reason why I should have to like everything.
Even if I don’t like it, I can live with it.
Not everybody have to love me or even like me.
I dont necessarily like everybody I know, so why should everybody else like me? I enjoy being like and being loved, but if somebody doesnt like me, I will still be okay and still feel like I am an okay person. I cannot make somebody like me, any more than someone can get me to like them. I dont need approval all the time. If someone does not approve of me, I will still be okay. my life will go on…moving till i die…eventhough nobody like me…at least there is someone who like me….
Making mistakes is something we all do, and I am still a fine and worthwhile person when I make them. There is no reason for me to get upset when I make a mistake. I am trying and if I make a mistake, I am going to continue trying. I can handle making a mistake. It is okay for others to make mistakes, too. I will accept mistakes in myself and also mistakes that others make
I am responsible for how I feel and what I do. Nobody can make me feel anything. If I have a rotten day, I am the one who allowed it to be that way. If I have a great day, I am the one who deserves credit for being positive. It is not the responsibilities of other people to change so that I can feel better. I am the one who is in charge of my life
~ don’t hate people because its really pain to be hated~
~ why should we hate people wothout reason? ~
i am happy on my 25th besday …celebrating with frenz over 
here…they are so kind..thanks to all….
and a day before my besday…suddenly..this song really touch my feeling….because…..only i know..
Kasih.. maafkan diriku
Banyak dosaku padamu
Tidak terhitung jari jemari daku
Tak dapat dibilang bagai bintang beribu
Sukarnya diriku menebus kekhilafan yang lalu
Kasih.. engkau tak bersalah
Hanya hatiku yang buta
Tulus dan ikhlas kau korban jiwa raga
Dan tanpa belas ku buat kau kecewa
Ku tahu dirimu sukar melupakan segalanya
Tiga malam tanpa bintang
Dan diriku dihimpit penyesalan
Arah tuju kian fana
Kerna hilangnya manira
Bagaikan siang diselubung gerhana
Kembalikan senda tawa
Pulangkanlah manis disenyum manja
Ku pahatkan keinsafan
Dan patrikan kesetiaan
Sehingga nadi menafikan nyawa
Kasih.. maafkan diriku
Banyak dosaku padamu
Tidak terhitung jari jemari daku
Tak dapat dibilang bagai bintang beribu
Sukarnya diriku menebus kekhilafan yang lalu
Kasih.. engkau tak bersalah
Hanya hatiku yang buta
Tulus dan ikhlas kau korban jiwa raga
Dan tanpa belas ku buat kau kecewa
Ku tahu dirimu sukar melupakan segalanya
Kasih…
macam tak percaya plak..name aku yang printed atas kad jemputan ni…selalu nya aku terima kad dari org lain…and i always think..bile agak nye name aku akan terukir indah atas kad jemputan plak..and now..it is reality….its my turn…alhamdulillah..
dengan penuh rasa rendah diri dan kesyukuran, aku ingin menjemput semua kenalan..kawan2 lama..kawan2 baru turut hadir memeriah kan majlis perkahwinan aku pada 8 March 2008 ni…dengan pilihan hatiku…Azizi Ahmad.
ramai kawan2 aku yang tanya …
"macam mane ko decide nak kawin???"…."betul ke ko nak kawin"…."ko pasti ke he is your Mr right?" and macam -macam lagi persoalan……
alhamdulillah…i had come a cross a silent feeling( for those who read book from Cecelia Aheren - when rains , whereby,i think i had made right decision…semoga di permudahkan perjalanan hidup aku di masa depan…berkat doa mak dan bapak aku yang always with me di masa aku sedih..susah and senang…semoga aku tabah menghadapi kehidupan baru….
everybody will go through the same cycle of life..cuma bezanya…cepat..atau lambat sikit…so its ok..
and how to decide about marriage..it come naturally…untill u don’t realize…u are ready…when everything flow smoothly..u will know…the path is there to be travelled.
just put your foot down and be confident..nobody is perfect and always come across hapiness…
u have to feel pain…tired..almost give up..in order to get to the top of the mountain to see the beautiful scenery.
that applied to my relationship….i have gone through so much pains…hard time and hapiness….and now…its a reward to moment of our passion.
if we just see a pencil with one perception, we might think it usage is just for writing, not more than that..
according to Paulo Coelho, it is more than just a tool for writing…it also can be relate to our real life.
‘Coelho’s writing is beautifully poetic but his message is what counts…
Life is like a pencil….is it true???
So lets see..how Paulo Coelho come out with with his anology to relate life to a pencil.
Capability
a pencil capable to write if only one hand exist to guide it through the writing.
Same as our life, we are capable to leave alone and survive, but still we need guidance and ALLAH exists to be the best guidance that we should refer to.
Improvement
After being used for sometimes…a pencil blunts and need to be sharpened. It suffers for a while, and after that it can perform better.
In life, in order to be a better person, we need to go through tough time, feel pains and sorrow and learn by experienced.
Correction
A pencil allows eraser to erase any mistake done in the writing and do correction after that.
As human being, we are not perfect. We have to accept any comments or criticize positively in order erase our defect and replace it with the better one….
Interior
No matter how nice the wooden part being decorated, a pencil is useless without the
graphite part. The most important thing is the interior part which is the graphite
part.
It is just similar to life…the interior part will reflect exterior part.
Mark
Pencil always left a mark anywhere, on the paper, on the wall or on the table sometimes.
In life….anything we do always remains as a mark in our heart or others people heart. So it is very important…to be carefully because the first cut is the deepest.
